Talking about your kinks_ with someone new can feel tricky — when’s the right time to bring it up? On a first date? Before things get physical? Or once you’ve built more trust? In this video, Dr. Frankie shares guidance on how to navigate kink_ disclosure, from figuring out your motivation, to considering the role kink_ plays in your life, to turning “the talk” into a real conversation rather than a one-sided announcement.
Whether you’re deeply involved in BDSM_ or just curious about exploring, this video will help you understand how to approach the topic in a way that feels authentic, respectful, and aligned with your goals in dating and relationships.
Recommended Books:
Playing Well with Others
https://bookshop.org/a/102599/9780937609583
With Sprinkles on Top: Everything Vanilla People and Their Kinky_ Partners Need to Know to Communicate, Explore, and Connect
https://amzn.to/4fXZ7DW
Why Are People Into That?: A Cultural Investigation of Kink_
https://amzn.to/4mpfwDA
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In 2022, Dr. Frankie gave a TEDx talk on the topic of sexual_ fluidity. You can watch it here:
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