In today’s talk, Dr. Frankie explores the wrong ways to break up and how to avoid them. A respectful breakup comes down to three key principles: clarity, honesty, and compassion. Ghosting or dragging things out causes unnecessary hurt-be direct. Avoid fake excuses; a simple “I don’t feel a romantic spark” is kinder. And if real feelings are involved, an in-person conversation is best. Breaking up is never easy, but handling it with care makes all the difference.
Recommended Books:
How to Break up with Someone and Make It Suck a Little Less: https://bookshop.org/a/102599/9781072868453
Dump ‘Em:
https://bookshop.org/a/102599/9780061646621
How to Break Up With Anyone: Letting Go of Friends, Family, and Everyone In-Between:
https://amzn.to/4kddXIe
Dr. Frankie is the CEO & Founder of LittleGayBook.com, which focuses on personalized matchmaking and singles events for lesbians, bisexual women, and trans women and has successfully connected couples across the United States for the last decade and a half.
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In 2022 Dr. Frankie presented a TedX talk focusing on the topic of sexual fluidity. You can view it here: https://youtu.be/mIjAqACtCLg
Her latest venture is as CEO & Founder of LittleBlackBookMatchmaking.com, specializing in personalized matchmaking and singles events for heterosexual singles.
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