Orgasms_ are shockingly easy to fake — and Meg Ryan proved it on screen decades ago. But why are so many people still doing it?
In this honest, no-BS episode, we unpack why people fake orgasms_, what it really means for your relationship, and how to move toward better, more satisfying sex_ — no pretending required. Whether you’ve faked it before or think your partner might be, this episode is for you.
👉 Topics covered:
✔️ Why people fake orgasms_ (and it’s not always what you think)
✔️ Whether faking it is “bad” for your relationship
✔️ What to do if you’ve been faking it
✔️ How to talk to your partner about real pleasure
✔️ Signs your partner might be faking (and how to approach it with care)
This isn’t just about sex_ — it’s about honesty, intimacy, and making sure everyone’s needs are actually being met.
Recommended Books:
Come As You Are: Revised and Updated
https://bookshop.org/a/102599/9781982165314
I Love Orgasms_
https://bookshop.org/a/102599/9780306874970
More Orgasms_ Please: Why Female Pleasure Matters
https://amzn.to/4fbIZ1e
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