In today’s dating world of hookup apps and situationships, deciding whether to have sex_ on the first date can still feel complicated. Will it impact your chances at a committed relationship? Or is it just about chemistry and fun?
In this video, Dr. Frankie shares how to make the choice that’s right for you, including:
💛 Understanding your personal history, comfort level, and relationship with sex_
💛 Deciding the role you want sex_ to play in your relationship
💛 Safety considerations before being intimate with someone new
There’s no moral “right” or “wrong” — it’s about what aligns with your needs, values, and safety.
Recommended Books:
Guide To Getting It On
https://bookshop.org/a/102599/9781885535047
I Didn’t Know I Needed This: The New Rules for Flirting, Feeling, and Finding Yourself: An Unfiltered Relationship Manual with Candid Insights, Embrace the Chaos of Modern Dating
https://amzn.to/415W3PQ
Getting It
https://bookshop.org/a/102599/9781984857156
📌 Watch now to explore how to approach sex_ on the first date with clarity, intention, and confidence.
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Dr. Frankie is a board-certified sex_ therapist, licensed psychologist, and the CEO & Founder of https://littlegaybook.com/. She has spent the last 16 years helping people in the LGBTQIA+ community find love through personalized matchmaking, coaching, and events.
Little Gay Book hosts speed dating events around the country and has successfully connected thousands of singles over the years. If you’re interested in staying in the loop, join our newsletter (https://littlegaybook.com/little-gay-book-newsletter/) to be the first to hear about upcoming events and matchmaking opportunities.
In 2022, Dr. Frankie gave a TEDx talk on the topic of sexual_ fluidity. You can watch it here:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mIjAqACtCLg
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