What do GGG, SSC, and RACK actually mean 👀 and how do they shape conversations around _sex, consent, and kink_?
In this video, Dr. Frankie Bashan breaks down three widely used frameworks for navigating intimacy_, communication, and BDSM_ practices:
• GGG (Good, Giving, Game)
• SSC (Safe, Sane, and Consensual)
• RACK (Risk-Aware Consensual Kink_)
Learn how these approaches help people communicate boundaries, prioritize consent, explore compatibility, and better understand risk in both vanilla and kinky_ relationships.
In this conversation, Dr. Frankie covers:
• The difference between SSC and RACK
• Why “good in bed” means different things to different people
• The importance of communication, aftercare, and informed consent
• Common misconceptions about kink and BDSM_ dynamics
Talking about sex_ gets easier when you have shared language for consent, boundaries, and pleasure. Whether you’re new to these concepts or already familiar with them, this discussion can help you better understand yourself and your relationships.
Dr. Frankie Bashan is a licensed psychologist, sex_ therapist, and professional matchmaker with over 17 years of experience working with LGBTQ+ individuals and couples. She specializes in relational dynamics, communication, and sexual compatibility. She is the founder of Little Gay Book and host of the Love, Laughs and Lessons podcast 🎙️
Recommended Books:
Playing Well With Others
https://bookshop.org/a/102599/9780937609583
Savage Love from A to Z: Advice on Sex and Relationships, Dating and Mating, Exes and Extras
https://amzn.to/40AfjUX
The Joy of Consent: A Philosophy of Good Sex
https://amzn.to/47SgEu5
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Dr. Frankie is a board-certified sex_ therapist, licensed psychologist, and the CEO & Founder of https://littlegaybook.com/. She has spent the last 16 years helping people in the LGBTQ+ community find love through personalized matchmaking, coaching, and events.
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In 2022, Dr. Frankie gave a TEDx talk on the topic of sexual_ fluidity. You can watch it here:
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