Most of us know about anxious and avoidant attachment styles — but there’s another one that’s often misunderstood: disorganized attachment (also called fearful-avoidant).
In this video, Dr. Frankie breaks down what disorganized attachment really means, where it comes from, and how it can show up in your dating life and relationships. If you’ve ever wanted closeness but pulled away when things got too real, this might sound familiar.
You’ll learn:
💬 How disorganized attachment develops from early experiences
💬 Why it can cause a “push-pull” dynamic in relationships
💬 What it feels like to date with this attachment style
💬 Steps to start healing and building safer emotional connections
Whether you’re exploring your own attachment style or want to understand a partner better, this video offers practical insight and compassion.
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