What happens when you and your partner just don’t align sexually?
In this episode, Dr. Frankie Bashan shares how to navigate mismatched kinks and sexual preferences without losing connection, respect, or yourself.
The early stages of getting to know someone can feel exciting, figuring out what turns each other on, what you’re curious about, and what you want to try. But sometimes, you realize you’re not fully compatible in that area, and that’s where things get tricky.
💛 How to use a yes / no / maybe framework to get clear on boundaries
💛 Why understanding the why behind your desires can open new possibilities
💛 Ways to find middle ground (without forcing it)
💛 When exploring options like non-monogamy might make sense
💛 And when it might be healthier to walk away
Sexual compatibility isn’t always instant, and it doesn’t have to be all or nothing. But honest conversations and clarity can make all the difference.
If you’ve ever wondered, “Can this still work?” this one’s for you.
Dr. Frankie’s Picks:
Playing Well with Others
https://bookshop.org/a/102599/9780937609583
Opening Up
https://bookshop.org/a/102599/9781573442954
Tongue Tied
https://bookshop.org/a/102599/9781627782661
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Dr. Frankie is a board-certified sex_ therapist, licensed psychologist, and the CEO & Founder of https://littlegaybook.com/. She has spent the last 16 years helping people in the LGBTQIA+ community find love through personalized matchmaking, coaching, and events.
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In 2022, Dr. Frankie gave a TEDx talk on the topic of sexual_ fluidity. You can watch it here:
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