Why are more couples exploring dominance and submission in their relationships? In this video, Dr. Frankie Bashan, clinical psychologist, relationship expert, and AASECT-certified sex therapist, breaks down the growing interest in D/s dynamics and what it really means for modern couples.
Dr. Frankie explains how dominance and submission (D/s) is rooted in consensual power exchange, where partners intentionally take on different roles to explore trust, control, and connection. From light roleplay to more established BDSM dynamics, these experiences can look very different from one relationship to another.
She also dives into why this shift is happening now, highlighting the role of mainstream media, digital culture, and evolving conversations around consent. With more access to information and less stigma than ever before, couples are feeling more open to exploring what excites them in a safe and intentional way.
Plus, Dr. Frankie touches on how cultural trends and changing gender roles may be influencing this curiosity, and why D/s can sometimes serve as a form of play, expression, or even emotional release within a relationship.
If you’ve ever been curious about D/s dynamics, or want to better understand how couples are navigating intimacy today, this conversation offers a grounded, judgment-free perspective.
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Playing Well With Others
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The Dominance Playbook:
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In 2022, Dr. Frankie gave a TEDx talk on the topic of sexual_ fluidity. You can watch it here:
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