You’ve probably seen terms like “narcissist,” “gaslighting,” or “narcissistic abuse” trending on Instagram or TikTok — but what do they actually mean? In this video, Dr. Frankie breaks down the difference between narcissistic traits and narcissistic personality disorder, and explains what narcissistic abuse really looks like.
From love bombing to coercive control, we take a closer look at how these dynamics can show up in relationships — and why it’s so important to approach them with nuance and care. Whether you’re questioning a current relationship or supporting a friend, this video will give you the tools to better understand narcissistic behavior and what healthy boundaries look like.
🔗 Topics Covered:
✅ Narcissism vs. Narcissistic Personality Disorder
✅ Understanding narcissistic abuse
✅ Signs of coercive control
✅ When a relationship is toxic vs. abusive
✅ How to get help and support
💬 If this resonates with you, you’re not alone. Reach out to a therapist or counselor experienced in trauma and relationship dynamics.
Recommended Books:
Invisible Chains
https://bookshop.org/a/102599/9781462520244
The Narcissist in Your Life
https://bookshop.org/a/102599/9780738285771
Unmasking Narcissism
https://bookshop.org/a/102599/9781623156428
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